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Looking for love on your own is like looking for a needle in a haystack. From apps to networking events to blind dates set up by well-meaning relatives, it can feel exhausting to be searching and swiping and never feeling that spark of connection.

We get it. At Sophy Love, we have decades of experience in behavioral psychology, deep professional networks among the most quality singles, and we are skilled in both the science and art of understanding a person’s preferences, goals and desires. Conscious dating is a focus on self-awareness, mindfulness, and making genuine connections. Our high-end matchmaking services offer dating experiences that are confidential, goal-oriented, and personalized to meet your specific needs.

Sophy Love has a team of expert matchmakers who excel in diverse approaches, along with coaching specialists, aiming to elevate the standards of mindful and conscious dating. Developing your awareness initially enables you to navigate the dating scene with a more profound insight into your own self and your requirements in relationships.

We know how to tap into what you’re looking for and help you navigate so you can get there. When it comes to the journey of finding love and companionship, you don’t have to do it alone.

what we do

Executive Matchmaking

You’re unique. If you want results that stick, your matchmaking experience needs to be, as well. Sophy Love will custom-tailor an experience for you that is discreet, results-driven, and curated to fit your precise desires.

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Closer Events

The antidote to dating boredom, Closer is designed to foster curiosity and connection within a highly curated group of singles handpicked by an executive matchmakers. Through deep icebreakers, and games, attendees  create authentic interactions and meaningful relationships with one another.

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Dating Concierge

The average person wastes 45 hours a month aimlessly swiping, texting and attempting to schedule dates with matches the ultimately fizzle out before anyone even gets a chance to connect off the app. Get your time and sanity back.

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dating coach

If your relationship goals are the end zone, our date coaching is the service that can get you there faster. Go on better dates. Come home feeling empowered, optimistic, and in control of your dating future. Let us show you how.

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Dating Directory

In life and in love, it’s often not just about who you know, but about who those people know. Tap into a network of vetted, exclusive singles who are all exceptional and inspiring, very much like you. It’s entirely complimentary.

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Curated Dates
Edited Profiles
Successful Couples
THE ANTIDOTE TO DATING BOREDOM. Skip the high stakes of modern dating and join us for Closer, a curated singles event that helps you get out of your mind and into your heart

Success Stories


Success! I met my husband on the second match that Sophy set me up with. It was an instant connection. Sophy was fantastic! She was kind, always available, and most importantly she truly listened to what I felt I needed and wanted. The fact that she took the time to get to know me gave me more hope and comfort. Honestly, she could not have found me a better partner. I am now happily married with a baby girl. I really love my family.  Thank you Sophy!


Sophy has taught me how to brave the dating world with no fear, no reservations, and no ego. I feel reassured that we are getting closer to finding my perfect match and I couldn’t do it without her.


It takes great care and ability to bring together two people who are searching for one another. The attention to detail from start to finish, the pep talks, the honest encouragement and quality of introductions truly set Sophy apart!


Sophy has an intuitive nature. She is able to understand a person as if you were an old friend, in a rather remarkable fashion. She is kind, empathetic, accommodating, and a true ally in the scary world of dating. I feel that she actually listens to my concerns and her dating pep talks are the best! She is converting an exhausted dating cynic into an actual optimist.


Sophy = matchmaking done right. I imagine matchmaking done right is a challenging job, Sophy handled it with ease. Sophy is an awesome communicator and pays attention to detail. Finding a connection isn’t easy, but Sophy does all the heavy lifting and makes it fun in the process.


Sophy has been an amazing matchmaker. This is my first time using any matchmaking service, and she has been there for me on so many levels. I don’t have to swipe, vet or negotiate – she listens to what I’m looking for in a partner and goes out of her way to make sure I’m satisfied. This has been an extremely positive experience, and it’s wonderful for people like me who are too busy and too old to keep swiping!


Sophy is amazing! She came highly recommended from a friend and did NOT disappoint! I felt like she has a tremendous gift for listening and understanding what I was looking for in a future husband. And she delivered him as my first match! We hit it off from our first date and truly believe we are soul mates. We’ve been together for over a year and a half and recently bought a new house together with a wedding in the near future! I highly recommend Sophy if you’re serious about finding the partner you’ve been waiting for!


I had been divorced for a number of years.  I thought I was fine by myself: I had friends, and activities, and I was happy.  But I was encouraged to take a chance, and rather than put myself on the internet, I found Sophy.  She was easy to open up to and helped me to really think about what was important to me moving forward.  She encouraged me to be open to the new experience of dating and she always listened.  On the second “date” that she set up, I met my fellow and we talked for hours.  We connected in so many ways that we knew we were the “right fit.” We haven’t been the same and we never will be. It has been two+ years and on the anniversary of our first date, we send a text to Sophy and thank her for putting us together.  Thanks Sophy, you have shown us our happy place, and it is brilliant.


Sophy listens to your story with compassion and kindness. Under her guidance, you feel less alone navigating the overwhelming and intimating world of dating (both online and in person). Ask Sophy for help, you won’t regret it…it could truly be the first step you take to finding that great love you have been searching for!


In working with Sophy, I felt like I was speaking with a good friend who had my best interests at heart. She took the time to get to know me, and where I was struggling. Our conversations were fun, educational, and supportive (even when they included some tough love). Most importantly, they involved thoughtful reflection, forcing me to articulate my feelings about dating in a way that I never had before. All of this helped me learn a lot about myself, and what qualities actually mattered to me in a prospective partner. Now I’m in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life, and I firmly believe this would not have been possible without Sophy!

Luke B.

The course was one of the most powerful workshops of my life and it was exactly what I needed. I’ve been putting the practices into my life and watching the results show up almost everyday. It’s incredible. The work is like a key that is unlocking my life and allowing me to blow by blockages that I’ve tripped over for years. So again thank you, thank you, thank you.

Tara S.

At the Closer workshop, Ryel paired us up, and took us through guided questions meant to dig deep and really get to know one another.  By the end, I felt like I hadn’t made meaningless small talk and that I hadn’t been robotically evaluating people with checklists, but instead getting to know them IN REAL LIFE. Since the workshop, I’ve been a lot more honest with the people I date, instead of hiding my emotions or trying to be someone else who has different preferences.

Jessica K.

It’s impossible to learn how to build deeper connections alone, which is what makes Closer workshops so special. It’s the perfect way to practice showing up as your most authentic self with a group. Ryle creates an atmosphere that’s both fun, and educational which really helped me connect to myself while Sophy curated a group of like minded people. I came away with a few fun dates and a couple new friends.

Frequently Asked Questions

Sophy Love is a matchmaking service that provides a distinct alternative to traditional dating apps. In a time where many are tired of endless swiping and too many choices, people are looking for a more focused and meaningful way to date, which is why we at Sophy Love focus on creating meaningful connections. We do this by carefully selecting potential matches based on their compatibility, shared values, and common goals. Our approach prioritizes depth and relevance in relationships over the sheer volume of options, commonly found on standard dating platforms. This not only saves you time but also significantly increases the likelihood of finding a truly compatible partner. 

Sophy Love’s matchmaking experts have a special talent for spotting compatibility, and they offer more than just matchmaking—they are insightful dating coaches, helping clients through the intricate world of dating. With their personalized and carefully crafted approach, they enhance the likelihood of clients forming long-lasting connections. This stands in contrast to the uncertain and potentially risky nature of online dating, where meeting strangers can often be a gamble.

What sets Sophy Love apart is its commitment to safety and trust. Matchmaking services conduct thorough background checks and verifies the authenticity of its clients, providing a layer of security that is rare in online dating. What’s more, matchmaking acknowledges diversity and that each individual possesses different preferences, desires and relationship outcomes. This awareness is reflected in Sophy Love’s customized approach to matchmaking. The service is designed to cater to the unique preferences of each client, significantly increasing the chances of finding a partner who might not be found through traditional dating methods. By focusing on individual preferences and goals, Sophy Love ensures a higher probability of matching clients with partners who are truly compatible.

Online dating apps often prioritize superficial factors like appearance and a brief bio. Conscious matchmaking goes beyond these surface-level attributes, considering factors such as shared values, life goals, and long-term compatibility. This shift helps individuals connect on a deeper level, leading to more meaningful dates and the potential for long-term relationships.

Matchmakers take a personalized approach to finding suitable partners. They spend time getting to know their clients on a personal level, ensuring that potential matches have the qualities and values that align with the client’s preferences. This tailored approach increases the likelihood of finding a compatible partner and cutting down the wasted time spent on dating apps.

Unlike online dating apps that inundate users with an excess number of potential matches, matchmaking services focus on quality over quantity. They present clients with carefully selected matches, reducing overwhelm and decision fatigue.

Love is fundamentally an emotional experience, felt deeply in the heart and body, not just the mind. Today’s dating scene, dominated by apps, often feels more like a mechanical process where we ‘shop’ for a partner based on a checklist, leading to quick judgments and dismissals. 

Closer events are designed to reinvigorate the human aspect of dating. They create an environment of openness, joy, and vitality, focusing on the real essence of human connection. These events aim to move away from the robotic nature of modern dating, bringing back the genuine, heartfelt experience of forming meaningful relationships. 

Sophy Love’s Dating Concierge service is your solution to the tiresome cycle of dating apps. We know how endless swipes and dead-end chats can be draining, so our Professional Online Takeover is here to change that.

 We provide a personalized approach to online dating, with our full-service online dating concierge Our expert dating concierge will consult with you on choosing the right dating apps that fit your needs, saving you time and hassle. We give your online profile a full makeover, from selecting the best photos to refining your bio, making sure it truly represents you.

Our professional matchmakers are always ready to advise you on your dating preferences, online deal breakers, and even those tricky etiquette questions. With our Dating Concierge service, you’re not just navigating the online dating world; you’re heading towards meaningful connections with our expert guidance every step of the way.

Yes. Sophy Love does not share profiles or email photos. We meet every candidate in person and all data shared with Sophy Love stays between the client and their matchmaker.

Yes. As a member of Sophy Love’s dating directory you now have access to our free services, including:

Membership in our singles dating directory, which is what our team uses to match you with potential partners who are looking for meaningful relationships. We will reach out if we find a promising match!

Invitations to our Closer events and classes, where you can meet other singles and learn skills to help you up-level your or emotional awareness and healthy relating.

Simply click “Get Started” here or  on the top of this page and create your  private profile. 

Become a complimentary member or learn more about our services.

If you feel like you are on a path towards growth and are open to learning what is holding you back, we are here to help. 

Matchmaking isn’t for everyone and our services range from coaching and free events to executive matchmaking. If you are ready to make a change, click get started and learn from one of our matchmakers what is the best path forward for you.

Did You know?

Our private dating directory is 100% complimentary for approved members. Get started and we will be in touch once your profile is approved. Allow yourself to get connected, at no cost to you. Tap into a network of vetted, exclusive, executive singles who are all exceptional and inspiring, very much like you.