Dating in New York is like the city itself—fast-moving, intense, and full of possibility. You’re surrounded by ambitious, fascinating people. And yet? It can still feel like finding someone real is the hardest thing in the world.
This city rewards hustle, but that same energy can make dating feel like another job on your calendar. Between late nights at the office, social events in Soho, and weekends bouncing between the Hamptons and Hudson Valley, it’s hard to slow down long enough to meet someone who gets it. Someone who meets your pace, your ambition, and your depth.
At Sophy Love, we help you step out of the noise and into something real. Our conscious matchmaking services in New York include executive matchmaking, dating concierge support, personal date coaching, and access to an exclusive, hand-vetted network of emotionally available singles. These are people who don’t just look good on paper—they’re genuinely ready for partnership.
Whether you’re building your empire in Manhattan, launching your startup in Brooklyn, or splitting time between Tribeca and LA, we meet you where you are. We’ll help you date with clarity, not confusion—because you’re not here for games. You’re here for connection.
Let’s be honest: swiping your way through New York rarely leads to what you’re truly looking for. That’s why our approach is different. We lead with intention, intuition, and a human-first strategy that’s about more than just checking boxes.
We work with New Yorkers who are ready for something that feels as good as it looks—and lasts longer than a weekend away.
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Sophy Love’s matchmaking services in New York are tailored for professionals, creatives, and entrepreneurs who want meaningful connection without wasting time. This is your space to step into dating with purpose and clarity.
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Dating in NYC doesn’t have to feel like a marathon. It can feel like momentum. That’s what we bring to the table.
With Sophy Love, you’re not navigating this alone. We bring clarity, support, and strategy to your dating life—alongside intuition, humor, and heart. With a background in psychology and years of experience guiding people into conscious partnership, we help you date smarter and feel more grounded every step of the way.
We’ve helped high-level professionals in Midtown reconnect with their softer side. We’ve helped creatives in Williamsburg find someone who balances their fire. We’ve helped newly single executives in the Upper West Side rediscover what it means to want to date again. Wherever you are in your journey, we’re here to move it forward—with grace.
This isn’t speed dating. This is the right pacing—with the right people.
You’ve done the work. You’re ready for love that feels real, aligned, and mutual. Let’s get you out of the dating loop and into something worth keeping.
Stop swiping. Start connecting.
Success! I met my husband on the second match that Sophy set me up with. It was an instant connection. Sophy was fantastic! She was kind, always available, and most importantly she truly listened to what I felt I needed and wanted. The fact that she took the time to get to know me gave me more hope and comfort. Honestly, she could not have found me a better partner. I am now happily married with a baby girl. I really love my family. Thank you Sophy!
Sophy has taught me how to brave the dating world with no fear, no reservations, and no ego. I feel reassured that we are getting closer to finding my perfect match and I couldn’t do it without her.
It takes great care and ability to bring together two people who are searching for one another. The attention to detail from start to finish, the pep talks, the honest encouragement and quality of introductions truly set Sophy apart!
Sophy has an intuitive nature. She is able to understand a person as if you were an old friend, in a rather remarkable fashion. She is kind, empathetic, accommodating, and a true ally in the scary world of dating. I feel that she actually listens to my concerns and her dating pep talks are the best! She is converting an exhausted dating cynic into an actual optimist.
Sophy = matchmaking done right. I imagine matchmaking done right is a challenging job, Sophy handled it with ease. Sophy is an awesome communicator and pays attention to detail. Finding a connection isn’t easy, but Sophy does all the heavy lifting and makes it fun in the process.
Sophy has been an amazing matchmaker. This is my first time using any matchmaking service, and she has been there for me on so many levels. I don’t have to swipe, vet or negotiate – she listens to what I’m looking for in a partner and goes out of her way to make sure I’m satisfied. This has been an extremely positive experience, and it’s wonderful for people like me who are too busy and too old to keep swiping!
Sophy is amazing! She came highly recommended from a friend and did NOT disappoint! I felt like she has a tremendous gift for listening and understanding what I was looking for in a future husband. And she delivered him as my first match! We hit it off from our first date and truly believe we are soul mates. We’ve been together for over a year and a half and recently bought a new house together with a wedding in the near future! I highly recommend Sophy if you’re serious about finding the partner you’ve been waiting for!
I had been divorced for a number of years. I thought I was fine by myself: I had friends, and activities, and I was happy. But I was encouraged to take a chance, and rather than put myself on the internet, I found Sophy. She was easy to open up to and helped me to really think about what was important to me moving forward. She encouraged me to be open to the new experience of dating and she always listened. On the second “date” that she set up, I met my fellow and we talked for hours. We connected in so many ways that we knew we were the “right fit.” We haven’t been the same and we never will be. It has been two+ years and on the anniversary of our first date, we send a text to Sophy and thank her for putting us together. Thanks Sophy, you have shown us our happy place, and it is brilliant.
Sophy listens to your story with compassion and kindness. Under her guidance, you feel less alone navigating the overwhelming and intimating world of dating (both online and in person). Ask Sophy for help, you won’t regret it…it could truly be the first step you take to finding that great love you have been searching for!
In working with Sophy, I felt like I was speaking with a good friend who had my best interests at heart. She took the time to get to know me, and where I was struggling. Our conversations were fun, educational, and supportive (even when they included some tough love). Most importantly, they involved thoughtful reflection, forcing me to articulate my feelings about dating in a way that I never had before. All of this helped me learn a lot about myself, and what qualities actually mattered to me in a prospective partner. Now I’m in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life, and I firmly believe this would not have been possible without Sophy!
The course was one of the most powerful workshops of my life and it was exactly what I needed. I’ve been putting the practices into my life and watching the results show up almost everyday. It’s incredible. The work is like a key that is unlocking my life and allowing me to blow by blockages that I’ve tripped over for years. So again thank you, thank you, thank you.
At the Closer workshop, Ryel paired us up, and took us through guided questions meant to dig deep and really get to know one another. By the end, I felt like I hadn’t made meaningless small talk and that I hadn’t been robotically evaluating people with checklists, but instead getting to know them IN REAL LIFE. Since the workshop, I’ve been a lot more honest with the people I date, instead of hiding my emotions or trying to be someone else who has different preferences.
It’s impossible to learn how to build deeper connections alone, which is what makes Closer workshops so special. It’s the perfect way to practice showing up as your most authentic self with a group. Ryle creates an atmosphere that’s both fun, and educational which really helped me connect to myself while Sophy curated a group of like minded people. I came away with a few fun dates and a couple new friends.