Dating in Boston is filled with possibility, but that doesn’t always make it easy. This city is full of brilliant minds, ambitious professionals, and deeply thoughtful people—but making real connections? That often gets lost in the shuffle of long hours, endless commutes, and a social scene that leans casual when you’re looking for intentional.
From Back Bay to Beacon Hill, Cambridge to the Seaport, Boston singles are smart, discerning, and often successful in every area of life except dating. At Sophy Love, we meet you at that crossroads—when you’re ready to stop guessing and start moving with clarity.
We offer a full suite of services designed to support you: executive matchmaking, conscious dating coaching, private dating concierge services, and access to a curated network of emotionally available singles who are ready for something serious. Our Boston clients include physicians, entrepreneurs, academics, and creatives who don’t have time to waste—and don’t want to settle.
We believe dating should feel like building something meaningful, not navigating a maze of mixed signals. With Sophy Love, every introduction is intentional, every interaction is rooted in alignment, and every step of your journey is guided by someone who gets it.
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Sophy Love’s high-end matchmaking services are built for busy professionals in Boston who are looking for quality over quantity, substance over speed, and emotional maturity over empty chemistry.
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Boston may be brainy, but that doesn’t mean dating has to be complicated. With Sophy Love, you get the clarity and confidence that comes from a partner who understands both the science and the art of building relationships.
We work with thoughtful, accomplished singles who are ready to get serious—and want to do it the right way. Whether you’re just starting over or have tried everything else, we create a dating experience that is centered on you: your goals, your pace, your values.
This is conscious matchmaking. It’s personal. It’s private. It works.
From the South End to Somerville and everywhere in between, we help Boston singles take dating off their to-do list and start building something real. If you’re ready to date with intention, we’re ready to help you get started.
Stop swiping. Start connecting.
Success! I met my husband on the second match that Sophy set me up with. It was an instant connection. Sophy was fantastic! She was kind, always available, and most importantly she truly listened to what I felt I needed and wanted. The fact that she took the time to get to know me gave me more hope and comfort. Honestly, she could not have found me a better partner. I am now happily married with a baby girl. I really love my family. Thank you Sophy!
Sophy has taught me how to brave the dating world with no fear, no reservations, and no ego. I feel reassured that we are getting closer to finding my perfect match and I couldn’t do it without her.
It takes great care and ability to bring together two people who are searching for one another. The attention to detail from start to finish, the pep talks, the honest encouragement and quality of introductions truly set Sophy apart!
Sophy has an intuitive nature. She is able to understand a person as if you were an old friend, in a rather remarkable fashion. She is kind, empathetic, accommodating, and a true ally in the scary world of dating. I feel that she actually listens to my concerns and her dating pep talks are the best! She is converting an exhausted dating cynic into an actual optimist.
Sophy = matchmaking done right. I imagine matchmaking done right is a challenging job, Sophy handled it with ease. Sophy is an awesome communicator and pays attention to detail. Finding a connection isn’t easy, but Sophy does all the heavy lifting and makes it fun in the process.
Sophy has been an amazing matchmaker. This is my first time using any matchmaking service, and she has been there for me on so many levels. I don’t have to swipe, vet or negotiate – she listens to what I’m looking for in a partner and goes out of her way to make sure I’m satisfied. This has been an extremely positive experience, and it’s wonderful for people like me who are too busy and too old to keep swiping!
Sophy is amazing! She came highly recommended from a friend and did NOT disappoint! I felt like she has a tremendous gift for listening and understanding what I was looking for in a future husband. And she delivered him as my first match! We hit it off from our first date and truly believe we are soul mates. We’ve been together for over a year and a half and recently bought a new house together with a wedding in the near future! I highly recommend Sophy if you’re serious about finding the partner you’ve been waiting for!
I had been divorced for a number of years. I thought I was fine by myself: I had friends, and activities, and I was happy. But I was encouraged to take a chance, and rather than put myself on the internet, I found Sophy. She was easy to open up to and helped me to really think about what was important to me moving forward. She encouraged me to be open to the new experience of dating and she always listened. On the second “date” that she set up, I met my fellow and we talked for hours. We connected in so many ways that we knew we were the “right fit.” We haven’t been the same and we never will be. It has been two+ years and on the anniversary of our first date, we send a text to Sophy and thank her for putting us together. Thanks Sophy, you have shown us our happy place, and it is brilliant.
Sophy listens to your story with compassion and kindness. Under her guidance, you feel less alone navigating the overwhelming and intimating world of dating (both online and in person). Ask Sophy for help, you won’t regret it…it could truly be the first step you take to finding that great love you have been searching for!
In working with Sophy, I felt like I was speaking with a good friend who had my best interests at heart. She took the time to get to know me, and where I was struggling. Our conversations were fun, educational, and supportive (even when they included some tough love). Most importantly, they involved thoughtful reflection, forcing me to articulate my feelings about dating in a way that I never had before. All of this helped me learn a lot about myself, and what qualities actually mattered to me in a prospective partner. Now I’m in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life, and I firmly believe this would not have been possible without Sophy!
The course was one of the most powerful workshops of my life and it was exactly what I needed. I’ve been putting the practices into my life and watching the results show up almost everyday. It’s incredible. The work is like a key that is unlocking my life and allowing me to blow by blockages that I’ve tripped over for years. So again thank you, thank you, thank you.
At the Closer workshop, Ryel paired us up, and took us through guided questions meant to dig deep and really get to know one another. By the end, I felt like I hadn’t made meaningless small talk and that I hadn’t been robotically evaluating people with checklists, but instead getting to know them IN REAL LIFE. Since the workshop, I’ve been a lot more honest with the people I date, instead of hiding my emotions or trying to be someone else who has different preferences.
It’s impossible to learn how to build deeper connections alone, which is what makes Closer workshops so special. It’s the perfect way to practice showing up as your most authentic self with a group. Ryle creates an atmosphere that’s both fun, and educational which really helped me connect to myself while Sophy curated a group of like minded people. I came away with a few fun dates and a couple new friends.