Support Between Dates, So You Never Have to Date Alone
Dating stirs a lot up. Hope, nerves, old patterns, and that quiet doubt after a date that went nowhere. Most people carry all of it on their own, somewhere between the apps and the group chat.
The Closer Circle is our membership for the space between dates: a live coaching call every week on Zoom with Sophy or one of our coaches, the online dating course, the resource library, and priority invitations to our events. $29 a month or $290 a year, cancel anytime.
On this page: What’s Included · A Different Way to Date · Who It’s For · FAQ
Everything Included in Your Membership
One membership, four ways to keep growing between dates. Use as much or as little as you need.
Weekly Live Coaching
Every week, Sophy or one of our coaches leads a live group call on Zoom. Bring what is actually happening in your dating life: the match who went quiet, the date you can’t read, the pattern you keep repeating.
- Your real situations, not generic tips
- Honest, caring feedback from a coach
- Hear what others are working through
Someone in your corner, every single week.
The Online Dating Course
24 video lessons with exercises, so the work keeps moving between calls. Go at your own pace and come back to a lesson whenever you need it.
- Presence and curiosity on a date
- Honesty without oversharing
- Attraction and healthy boundaries
Practice, not just another list of tips.
The Resource Library
Guided meditations, an archive of past coaching sessions, and reading material, all in one place. Missed a call? The session is waiting for you.
- Guided meditations
- Past session recordings
- Reading material for between dates
Support for the moment you need it.
Priority Event Invitations
Members hear about our Closer events first. These are curated evenings with guided conversation and connection exercises, designed so you meet people as humans, not profiles.
- Invitations before anyone else
- Guided, low-pressure conversation
- Real connection in the room
Meet people with more context.
Want More Personal Support?
The Closer Circle is a membership, not matchmaking. If you’d like one-on-one coaching or a personal search, our team offers Dating Strategy and Coaching and Executive Matchmaking, all in-house. Coaching is always offered, never required.
A Different Way to Date
Most dating conversation stays at the surface. We’ll take you deeper.
The apps run on facts: what you do, where you live, how tall you are. Good dates begin when the conversation turns personal, to feelings and values. Real connection happens one step further, when two people are present with what is happening between them right now.
That kind of conversation is a skill, and like any skill it gets easier with practice and support. Our coaching draws on Authentic Relating, a practice of honest, present conversation.
It also draws on Internal Family Systems, a way of understanding the different parts of you that show up when you date, including the ones that try to protect you.
Every Week
A live coaching call on Zoom
From Anywhere
Join the calls wherever you live
Cancel Anytime
$29 a month or $290 a year
The Closer Circle Is for You If...
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to want something real.
You want a real relationship, and you’re tired of doing dating on your own.
You’d rather practice with guidance than read one more article about what to text.
You’re curious about your own patterns and ready to show up a little more honestly.
Get Closer to the Love You Want
Join the Closer Circle for $29 a month or $290 a year. Cancel anytime. Your first live call could be this week.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Closer Circle?
The Closer Circle is a Sophy Love membership for support between dates. It includes a live coaching call every week on Zoom with Sophy or one of our coaches, the online dating course with 24 video lessons, the resource library, and priority invitations to our events.
How much does the Closer Circle cost?
$29 a month or $290 a year. You can cancel anytime.
Is the Closer Circle matchmaking?
No. The Closer Circle is not a dating app or a matchmaking service, and it does not include matches. It is support for you while you date. If you’d also like to be considered for introductions, the free Sophy Love membership places you in our private dating directory, and our matchmaking services are here when you want a personal search.
What happens on a weekly coaching call?
Sophy or one of our coaches leads the call, and members bring what is happening in their dating lives right now. You’re welcome to bring a question, or simply listen and learn from what others are working through.
What if I miss a call?
Past sessions are kept in the resource library, so you can catch up whenever it suits you.
Do I need to live in San Diego to join?
No. The weekly coaching calls are on Zoom, so you can join from anywhere.
How is this different from private coaching with Sophy Love?
Private coaching is one-on-one and built entirely around you and your search. The Closer Circle is a group membership: weekly coaching, a course and a library you can lean on between dates. You can choose either one, or both.
Can I cancel my membership?
Yes. You can cancel anytime.